The biggest challenge for me in walking Prophet through the park every morning is negotiating the parade of personalities -- canine and human -- that we encounter. There are dogs who are Prophet's great playmates and dogs who he walks alongside companionably. There are dogs who he greets with respectful affection and those who he nods to and brushes shoulders with. And then there are his nemeses.
For one reason or another Prophet holds long-term grudges with a few dogs. They are, interestingly, not those who have hurt him. One longhair Shepherd, who he met when he was a pup, tolerated his presence until the owners got a new puppy. When Prophet went to greet the puppy the older dog opened up Prophet's forehead. The next time they met they fought again, but this time Prophet was prepared and wasn't hurt. I detoured around those two for months but they have now reached a modus vivendi. The older dogs nod, Prophet barks at the younger one, and they go on their separate ways.
One dog who always tried to bully Prophet when he was small now enrages him. We run into her on the weekends and I have to either lead Prophet on a long detour or leash him. Another, who we see most mornings actually went after a seven-year old who was with us one day. Prophet seems inclined neither to forgive nor forget, but as long as we don't get to close, my voice commands are enough to keep him away.
Then there is the Great Dane we see a few times a week. Prophet tried to hard to make friends the first few times they met, bowing, wagging, making himself small. But this Dane just gave him the hard eyeball and stood aloof. After that, Prophet barked at her from a distance, but -- per instructions -- did not approach.
A few weeks ago I saw that Dane approaching so I leashed Prophet and led him down a very steep embankment. Didn't that unleashed Great Dane come straight over with the angry eyes and the menacing bark. I tried getting between them but the dog went after Prophet anyway. I gave Prophet an extra foot of leash and the Dane eventually backed away.
This morning the first time we saw that dog Prophet started jumping around and stepping forward as if he were going to go after her. I called him and continued on a tangent, so he barked a couple of times more and then followed me. So when we saw them a second time on another path about thirty yards across the brush I leashed Prophet and instructed him to follow me. But the Dane was still off leash and bounding toward Prophet. I was considering releasing him, but the attack never got serious enough. She was snarling at Prophet and jumping at him, but still avoiding his mouth. Prophet grabbed her jacket, but let go when I told him to.
Meanwhile, the owner was yelling and pursuing her dog. When she got close I realized she was yelling at Prophet! The gentleman I was with, whose little dog was watching with interest, chuckled and asked why she was giving orders to Prophet instead of her own dog, particularly since Prophet was on leash!
After Prophet concluded that he was not under attack he agreed to step away. I looked back and saw this woman carefully checking her dog for the injuries Prophet hadn't given her. My dilemma is this:
It is so easy for me to see other people's blindness to their dog's aggressions and to their own complicity. It is impossible for me to see my own blindness. I try really hard, but I know that if they are that oblivious, I must be at least a little oblivious. I can always keep Prophet away from dogs he doesn't like, sometimes with voice, sometimes with leash. I cannot prevent him from disliking those dogs, or from expressing those emotions, and that contributes to drama. With some owners it has been possible for us to reintroduce the dogs after conflict and have them be okay. Others seem to think that Prophet is a ravening beast. But they also seem to think that it is entirely incumbent on me to avoid them. It's fine if I can lead Prophet on a long detour. It's less fine if their dogs pursue us anyway.
I don't know what a person who really knows dogs would do. I think I will pursue a professional consult.
Friday, February 27, 2015
Friday, February 20, 2015
Facing Our History: How do we understand lynching of Mexican Americans?
This morning’s New York Times included an Op-Ed piece titled
“When
Americans Lynched Mexicans.”
The authors refer the reader immediately to the recent and
well-publicized report
on extrajudicial violence in America, but warn us against thinking that
lynchings in the United States were exclusively against African Americans.
The bulk of the essay details a few of the 500+ cases the
authors were able to document in detail.
It also refers to the untold thousands of murders, mainly in south
Texas, between 1915 and 1918, when vigilantes and law enforcement officers
unleashed a wave of terror against the Mexican-American majority of the
area. Ultimately, the authors say
nothing about the military conquest of the southwestern United States. They do not mention the Treaty of
Guadalupe-Hidalgo that promised the people of the area that they would be
undisturbed in their persons or property after the conquest. And they choose to discuss neither the
theft of private property from Mexican Americans nor their reduction to the
status of second-class citizens in their own homeland by Anglo newcomers. Instead, the authors are content to
remind us that lynching was not unique to the South and to ascribe all this
violence to “hate.”
But the authors wrote the essay they chose. Perhaps it is enough just to let people
know about this legacy of murder without providing a context of robbery and
power. What interested me were the
early comments on the article. We
Americans don’t just have a short memory for our own history. We are actively skeptical and
distrustful of the truths of our collective past. One reader responded positively, but with strong
reservations, wondering “IF it is accurate and based on hard evidence rather
than anecdote.” It is not hard to
check on the facts in the essay.
They are a matter of public record, including – as mentioned by the
authors – and investigation by the Texas Legislature itself. But that doubt doesn’t end this
reader’s disbelief. He concludes:
“When we accept people… as citizens they become part of us and should never
have been targeted like that.” All
of which ignores the fact that those Mexican Americans’ families had been in
Texas before Texas became part of the
United States and in many cases before
Mexico was independent of Spain.
They never crossed the border; the
border crossed them!
Then there were the readers who want to consign this ugly
history to the Kingdom of the Past, where things were Different, because we
shouldn’t apply our standards to the people back then (who presumably were
somehow unaware of the Biblical injunction against murder.) One tells us, “Society tells us whether
any action is ‘the norm.’ Slavery,
though wrong, was not illegal in past centuries.” Meaning what?
That lynching used to be okay?
Several commenters want to remind us that their own ethnic
group was also the target of lynchers.
Two discuss lynchings of Italians, something the authors themselves
mention in paragraph two. A third
insists on calling our attention to Jewish victims of lynchings. I cannot help but feel that this is a
way of distancing oneself from the history of American violence and denying the
fact of one’s own (current) white privilege. Some of those late 19th and early 20th
century mob killings of Catholics and Jews were motivated by Protestant
religious hatred. But many were
also meant to police the color line and teach newcomers that they would not be
allowed to affiliate with African Americans: in marriage, in friendship, in
business partnerships, or in labor unions.
Another reader complains about even being told this
history. He writes that “we
whites” have to “take it on the chin” and “grovel in the dirt” even if our
families just got here. What
apparently eludes him is that his family can arrive and be treated as Americans
while those whose families arrived before Jamestown are stopped and asked for
identification and treated as if they swam across the river.
Which gets to yet another point. The authors refer in their very last sentence to “today’s
charged debate over immigration policy.”
This really sets off some readers.
One admitted to being hostile before even reading the article: “When I
read the headline I wondered what the point of this historical victimhood piece
might be.” Wow! “Historical victimhood.” That phrase alone conveys so much about
our reluctance to learn our country’s history. He concludes: “Cynical assumptions confirmed,” because the
authors connect the anti-Mexican violence of the twentieth century with the
hatred and suspicion of Mexicans today, as if that were some bizarre leap of
illogic.
I am choosing not to quote or to comment on those readers
who made some of the same points I do in response to the resistance to history
I cite above. But this is the week
that the Oklahoma legislature is considering banning
Advanced Placement US History, apparently because it includes “bad” stuff
about our country. Two and a half
months ago I posted in this space about extrajudicial
murders and about official
impunity today in the light of
our nation’s history. Lynching
isn’t over. Neither is the habit
of blaming it on those lynched. It
is important for us to look at the entire story and context of racial violence
in the practice of racial oppression.
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